I was with you until you said the thing about men naturally not caring about other people. Why say that? Why do you think that it is natural and normal for boys and men to not give a shit but natural for women to? Don’t you think it’s because women are pressured to be kind and men are pressured to be unkind?
I think it’s misogynistic to claim that it’s natural for men to be uncaring because you are saddling women with bad men by saying it’s natural for the men to be bad. You are allowing them to be that way and forcing us to settle.
I can’t even imagine why somebody would be comfortable with the idea that somebody would naturally be bad. I would think that you would not want to accept that if you were a decent person.
I think you are reading too much into what I wrote, and interpreting it with a lot of bad faith.
In no way I am I excusing any sort of behaviour that is disrespectful towards others. Everyone has a responsibility to be respectful. I think a lot of young men similar do not take this responsibility seriously. And they should.
I was with you until you said the thing about men naturally not caring about other people. Why say that? Why do you think that it is natural and normal for boys and men to not give a shit but natural for women to? Don’t you think it’s because women are pressured to be kind and men are pressured to be unkind?
I think it’s misogynistic to claim that it’s natural for men to be uncaring because you are saddling women with bad men by saying it’s natural for the men to be bad. You are allowing them to be that way and forcing us to settle.
I can’t even imagine why somebody would be comfortable with the idea that somebody would naturally be bad. I would think that you would not want to accept that if you were a decent person.
I think you are reading too much into what I wrote, and interpreting it with a lot of bad faith.
In no way I am I excusing any sort of behaviour that is disrespectful towards others. Everyone has a responsibility to be respectful. I think a lot of young men similar do not take this responsibility seriously. And they should.
But it sounds like you're saying their lack of caring is natural and innate.